That's it. I'm doing it. I'm making a list for "everything else" that's never going to be finished because I keep adding to it. Where does this list currently exist? In my head.
Yeah, like many women, I have the running list of everything I need to do, want to do, hope to do, just going on and on and on in my brain. Well, I'm tired of it. It's time to just put it on the list when I think of it (or when I get a second to write). Then I can stop thinking about it and start planning and doing, which sounds pretty appealing.
Rules of the List
- Number the list because it's fun
- When an item is complete, "cross it off" the list
- Write a blog post about it and include at least ONE picture
- Add the date the item went on the list
- Add the date the item was completed
So here goes…My Everything/Forever List
- Make a list for a week of work lunches/snacks
- Start making hummus (10/23/13)
- Start using homemade wipes again (10/23/13)
- Re-read the Five Languages of Love (10/23/13)
- Design Elliott's birth announcement (he's only 3 months old already!) (10/23/13)
- Send pictures to Minnesota family monthly (10/23/13)
- Start a "Baby Mamas" group at work (10/23/13)
- Go the Seafood Buffet at the CDA Casino with friends (10/23/13)
- DONE on 10/23/2013! Go to luncheon and donate to Transition (10/23/13)
- Make a bigger breastmilk storage box for freezer (10/23/13)
- Redesign MyHappyLists blog (11/21/13)
- Write at least once per week (11/21/13)
- Start a tradition of weekly date nights with daughter (11/21/13)
- Experiment with different eczema treatments for Baby E and myself (11/21/13)
- Create a visual tracking at home for goals (exercise & chores) (11/21/13)
Simplify for Success
This list is for the things that will help me be more successful by simplifying tasks.
- Leave a bag of frozen berries at work (instead of bringing a cup every day and then not bringing them) (10/24/2013)
As you can see, I haven't added a new blog entry in 6 months! That's pretty ridiculous. Like many people, I have some pretty typical excuses: I'VE BEEN BUSY.
Really? Too busy to take 15 minutes to post a new blog? Probably not. So here's to a new challenge to add one new post every day for 30 days straight. I'd like give myself a 100-day challenge because I think those are more substantial and fun, but let's start with a more manageable 30-day challenge.
And to give myself the motivation to get those posts written every day, here's a list of 10 reasons why blogging consistently is good for you:
1. Stretch your mind. It's one thing to sit and have a chat with a friend about something, but when you sit down to write something, you're going to stretch your mind much more. You have to organize your thoughts and communicate in a way that will connect with people.
2. Do better in Google. Search engines love fresh content. If you want to perform better in search engines and grow a larger following, you need to write consistently so that Google will rank your blog better.
3. Maintain reader loyalty. If you're writing just for yourself, then this one doesn't really apply to you. Usually people are writing for an audience – friends, family, or strangers. If you want those people to stay loyal to your blog, you need to give them content to keep coming back to. If you let your blog sit without an update for 6 months, no one is going to be paying attention!
4. Challenge yourself. Ok, so this is kind of like stretching your mind, but seriously – stop being so lazy and give yourself a good challenge. With something new to accomplish every day, you're going to push yourself more than just sticking with the "same old, same old."
With some input from Tyler Wilson (the hubbie) from Normdog Entertainment, here are the best and worst of the 2010 Oscars.
Opening song by Neil Patrick Harris. The singing was slightly strained, but the song was great.
Tina Fey and Robert Downey, Jr. Actually funny. They should have hosted the show.
John Hughes movie clip montage. Because, who doesn’t love the Hughes? Pretty sad that he’s gone now.
Samuel L. Jackson presents “Up.” As a former Pixar actor (Frozone, The Incredibles) Sammy J. introduced the movie clip without sounding like a teleprompter robot.
Whether you are meeting your partner’s parents or extended family for the first time, you might be stressing out about impressing them. If you are, hopefully this list will help you out a little.
Ways to Impress the In-Laws
1. Stop trying. The harder you try to impress them, the less genuine and sincere you will be. You’ll come off like a jerk and a fake. So stop trying, or at least stop trying so hard.
2. Be yourself. Assuming you are a kind, loving, and helpful person – just be yourself. If you’re not any of those, count your blessing that you actually found someone who wants you to meet their family.
3. Offer to help. Offering to help is the easiest way to impress the in-laws. You can offer to help cook, clean, serve, pick-up, run an errand, or anything else. The simple gesture of offering your services shows people that you are outgoing and kind. Nice work.
4. Avoid the booze. I can’t say I’ve always been successful at this, but it would be best to avoid the booze while you’re spending time with people who haven’t had the chance to appreciate your drunken personality yet. Give them time.
5. Leave or send a thank you note. If they have you over for dinner or let you stay at their house, leaving or sending a thank you note is a very thoughtful and respectful gesture. It shows them how appreciative and thoughtful you are. Way to go.
If you are going to see a counselor for the first time, it can be pretty intimidating. No matter what issue you are going to work on, the following tips will help you get the most out of counseling.
1. Drop your guard. We all have walls that we put up to protect ourselves. That wall is going to be one of the biggest obstacles to your growth. By dropping your guard, you commit to being honest and completely open. If you want to get your money’s worth, this is the #1 way to do it. It will be difficult, especially when you start approaching topics that cause some pain, shame, or negative emotions. Remind yourself that you’re in a safe place and that’s what you are here for. So drop your guard and be real.
2. Find the right match. Counselors are human, and they have personalities and therapeutic styles. To get the most out of your time, you must find the right match. That means you might have to hop around counselors for a little while, but it will be worth it. It’s better to shop around than meet the discouragement of delayed and negative progress due to a poor match. So take the time (and money) to find the right match.
All children lie. Yes, even your little darling will lie to you at some point. However, some kids struggle with lying more than others. If you have caught your child lying so many times you can’t remember and you can’t think of anything to get them to stop, try out some of these ideas. Feel free to print the list off, add your own ideas, or leave feedback on your success.
1. 1 minute. Children who are chronic liars often lie about bad behavior to avoid getting in trouble. If lying is the behavior you want to stop first, try giving them 1 minute.
Tell your child, "You have 1 minute to tell me the truth. If you tell me the truth about something you did bad, you will only receive the known consequence (for example, 2 minutes of timeout – something mild), but if you lie about something you did bad, you will receive the known consequence for the bad behavior (2 minutes of timeout) plus another consequence for lying (something WAY worse).
This works because your chronic liar experiences lying as a way to avoid a consequence. If you reduce the consequence she’s trying to avoid, then her reason for lying is removed.
Explain to your child, if you break the rules, there will always be consequences. But if you LIE, there will be consequences and then even bigger consequences on top of it. So just tell the truth, face the consequence, and move on. The key here is not punishing your child over a prolonged amount of time. Give them nice, positive attention after they pay their time or consequence. Don’t hold it over their head. Give them a clean slate and more chances to be successful.